Someone died...

A girl’s friend was murdered and at first she couldn’t help but be upset. She felt guilty because she wasn’t going to make it to his funeral. She spoke with someone who helped her realize that her friend would never want to be the source of her unhappiness and not going to the funeral didn’t mean that she loved him or missed him any less than anyone who was going. She decided that instead of continuing to be sad that she was going to do something special to honor him and their friendship out of respect for him. She knew that in the end he would be happy if she was happy. What options do we have when someone dies?